
by Mandy Green, Selling for Coaches
So it is now March. How are those goals you set in December coming along?
Did you sign the recruits that you wanted? Set up your leadership development program? Lose that 10 pounds? Spend more time with the family? Read that book?
If so, GREAT! Good for you. You really are one in a million.
If you are like most coaches out there, you probably gave up on accomplishing your 2010 goals sometime at the end of January because life got crazy once school started up again after winter break. If it makes you feel any better, you’re not alone. So many coaches get demoralized when, year after year, they set personal and program goals for the New Year that they keep for only a few weeks or maybe even just a few days.
For today, I wanted to give you a few tips that will help you “push the reset button” on your goal setting for the year.
First think about this, I have found with myself and in working with other coaches on their goals that a big reason so many goals set for the New Year fail to make it to March is that the focus is on the “what” instead of the “why” and the “how.”
As you sit down and re-evaluate why you already gave up on your goals for this year I want you to ask yourself a few questions. First question to ask would be “why” did I make this goal in the first place? The second question to ask is “how” am I really going to make this goal a reality? For example, if your goal is to “mange my time better in the office so I can spend more time with my family,” I want you map out what may be the root cause of the problem:
- I get into the office late
- I spend too much time emailing
- I get distracted easily
- I spend too much time gossiping with fellow coaches
- I’m not organized
- I have too many things to get done
- I get interrupted a lot during the day
Once you have identified the “why” for each goal you have, create specific personal resolves for behavior change from there.
Here are a few specific resolves:
- I will get into the office 1 hour before the rest of the staff arrives
- I will only check my email twice a day
- I will create a personal, team, and recruiting plan (contact us at Selling For Coaches if you want help with this!)
- I will make to-do lists to make sure the important things are getting done
If you really are serious about accomplishing all you set out to do in 2010 do this:
1. For each goal you created for 2010, make a list of the “why’s.” What is the real reason you want to achieve this goal? Do this for each and every goal that you set.
2. Come up with specific behavioral changes you are willing to make in order to make each goal a reality.
3. Prioritize and plan. At the end of each day or at the beginning of the next, look at your schedule and block out specific times during the day that you will ONLY SPEND ON YOUR GOALS! Lock your door, turn your phone off, and shut down your email. You do nothing else during that time but the things that will help you take that next step in accomplishing your goal!
I got this quote from a Brian Tracy email recently and thought that it was very applicable to goal setting.
“You must do the things today that others will not do so that you can have the things tomorrow that others will not have.”
– Anonymous
Setting goals is the easy part. Doing something every day that will bring you closer to accomplishing your goals is where it gets tough and where most coaches give up after a few weeks because they don’t understand why and how they are going to do it. It is going to take a lot of discipline, planning, and no doubt it will be hard work, but it will all be well worth it in the end.
Please, if you want help in being accountable for your goals or need help tweaking them, feel free to contact me at mandy@sellingforcoaches.com.
Mandy Green, our Team Development Specialist here at Selling for Coaches, will be one of the featured presenters at the 2010 National Collegiate Recruiting Conference in Chicago this July. Have you registered yet? There’s a special discount available for a few more weeks…click here for all the details.

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